Lodging for destiation wedding attendants in another hotel

My fiance and I are planning a destination wedding in Honolulu in March. I understand that I will be paying for attendants' lodging. Is it a must that I put my attendants up at the same hotel where the wedding will be? Although the ceremony/reception were actually quite reasonable in price, the.... [Read more]

Bride won't pay for wedding party's lodging

I am the maid of honor in a destination wedding being held outside the country. I have looked through many wedding etiquette websites, and they all say that the hotel rooms for the members of the wedding party should be paid for by the bride and groom (or their parents). However the bride has not.... [Read more]

Accommodations for bridesmaids

Hello,

I have invited three out-of-town women to be my bridesmaids. All are married, two have children in the wedding. I know that it is proper to provide accommodations for out of town attendants, and I am willing to do so, but I just want to "push the limits" a little.

None of these women are.... [Read more]

Including hotel and directions in wedding invitation

I would like to include in my wedding invitation information regarding hotels in the area, directions to the church, directions from the church to the reception hall, and a map of the general area.(Many of our guests are from out of town.) Is it tacky to include this on a separate type-written note.... [Read more]

Maid of Honor Lodging at Destination Wedding

I have been asked to be the maid of honor at a destination wedding in Las Vegas. However, the bride has not offered to pay for my lodgings at the wedding. She had previously sent me an email detailing a flight-hotel package for the weekend, I replied that it was proper for her to pay for my.... [Read more]